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writes:my bf has a problem with trusting people. and because of my past he doesnt trust me, and he has never trusted me for the 5 years we have been together. last week i just got really mad and broke up with him for not trusting me. he is also going through a very bad time due to his health and family etc and i want to be there for him. i really need him i cant live without him, and i know he needs me to. i dont know what to do. please help i really miss him thanks xxxx
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (13 April 2008):
 If you wanna make this work you have to sort out this trust problem.
Sit him down and say - Listen, to make our relationship work, you need to start trusting me. I have changed and I will not break the trust as long as you don't.
WE have to work it both ways and if you really cannot trust me then we can't be together - it would be the same if it was me who didn't trust you. I will give you reason to trust me by not betraying you and you need to trust me for that reason. Please, because I really really want this to work but I need your word that you will try to stop thinking.
I think talking to him in this way will help the situation.
Take care. I hope this helps.
xxx
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