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writes:I love my boyfried and i know that he loves me, we have the most amazing times together and have often talked about the future, getting a house together, having kids etc, however recently we've been having a bit off a tough time,arguin and stuff, and for the first time 2day my boyfriend mentioned spliting up... i know this relationship is worth saving, and i think deep down he knows it is too... but how can i show him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): For 'Millbank' above, I think your right in way, but a bit silly for suggesting one thing as the right thing to do, but telling us you've only this last week done the complete opposite..!?? Why is this..?? :-)
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 July 2009):
Sometimes relationships reach this stage, theres no set way of where it should go from here, if you love him then let him know, reasure him your love is still strong and this is something you want to last. Ask yourself what lead him to talk about splitting up and in future avoid those conversations, tell him you want him to be honest with you and if hes having doubts you want to know and work through them together. You cant show him, for it to work he needs to see and feel it for himself. You cant prove feelings or emotions, reasure him and tell him how your feeling then ask the question hows he feeling. Put all you have out into the open, after having that talk the two of you should see a way forward with the support and input of both of you.
Best of luck
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reader, jam22  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 All I want to say is that you cannot change people or their minds...people are who they are and they only change themselves or their minds when they want to....Good luck to you guys
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