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Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events?

Q.   Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events? I have met some family members and he has met some of mine, so I don't understand why he does not invite me to cookouts, dinners, etc when he is with his ...

A.   27 July 2009: Good possiblity from "Sincerely yours" second response. I didn't think of that. As I said before, I will continue on with my full life and doing more of what I want to do..Your bits of advice are appreciated again... (read in full...)

Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events?

Q.   Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events? I have met some family members and he has met some of mine, so I don't understand why he does not invite me to cookouts, dinners, etc when he is with his ...

A.   27 July 2009: Many thanks to Tisha-1...you are right on some things, but way off on many others. My guy is a compartmentlizer too, and I know and respect this about him so I have learned to respect his privacy and leave him to his own life. However, I don't hover ... (read in full...)

I want to give him a chance but he punches me!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend over 2 years and we're madly in love. However on a number of occassions he has punched etc.He has not beat me up and never badly hurt me. I used to blame myself but not anymore . After warning him never to touch me ...

A.   27 July 2009: Run, don't walk from this relationship!! It will only get worse. You deserve better...Take care of yourself....... (read in full...)

I love him but he shuts down when I mention sex!

Q.   I'm not really sure who to turn to so I guess I came here. I'm 21 years old and I have been married a year and a few months, but I have been with my husband a year before. So about 2 1/2 years together total. When we first got together we just...

A.   27 July 2009: This is truly a question for a professional therapist or marriage counselor. There is obviously communication lacking here, and I think professional counseling will help you two with your problems. Good luck to you..... (read in full...)

He suggested splitting up, but I know our relationship is worth saving. How can I show him?

Q.   I love my boyfried and i know that he loves me, we have the most amazing times together and have often talked about the future, getting a house together, having kids etc, however recently we've been having a bit off a tough time,arguin and stuff, ...

A.   27 July 2009: All I want to say is that you cannot change people or their minds...people are who they are and they only change themselves or their minds when they want to....Good luck to you guys... (read in full...)

I am thinking of a divorce, I'm fed up with the lies!

Q.   I'm seriously thinking of divorcing my husband. I'm tired of all the lies and deceit. Back in April I checked out an email account that both my husband and I have access to but I hadn't looked at in over a year. I was sickened by what I saw. My ...

A.   27 July 2009: Wow, I am impressed that you are not more angry than you appear to be, and that you are trying to work it out becuz of the kids. Remember that you don't have to tolerate his behaviour just because you are married to such a jerk. And no, you are not ... (read in full...)

I need an unbiased opinion. There's a lack of passion in our marriage due to her illness.

Q.   I have been married for 8 years. When we started dating (12 years ago), we had a great time. She was not as passionate or as romantic as I was but I was able to look that over because she had many other great qualities that I was attracted to. ...

A.   27 July 2009: I am not sure exactly what your question is? Are you asking if it is okay if you cheat, or do want to divorce..I don't mean to be mean in my response just not sure what your question is ...please explain or ask your question again? ... (read in full...)

He won't let me around his children!

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I love him and he says he loves me and wants to marry me someday, but here's the thing... he has 2 kids. Now, the kids themselves are not the problem. I am more than willing to come in and fulfill ...

A.   27 July 2009: Yeah,just be patient...4 months is not long enough to be around someone's kids...he may open more after knowing you a bit longer..Good luck to you..... (read in full...)

Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events?

Q.   Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events? I have met some family members and he has met some of mine, so I don't understand why he does not invite me to cookouts, dinners, etc when he is with his ...

A.   27 July 2009: Thanks for the current answers...no his ex does not attend(they are not friendly with one another). #2 He was married for many,many years, and he is only recently divorced.So he has not dated much, and seriously not at all. And yes, I do think that ... (read in full...)

Why on earth did my now-married ex add me as a friend on Facebook?

Q.   what can i do ? i did post about this earlier-as a recap i split with my fiance 6 years ago we havent spoke since 2005 the other night i get an email requesting facebook friendship from him so i accept and go on his site to see hes married and ...

A.   27 July 2009: Yeah he appears to have been curious not malicious. Anyway, send him a quick "congrats" and delete him as a friend.. Good luck to you... (read in full...)

He seems selfish sometimes! I'm not sure he appreciates me...

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for several months now and we were friends for a couple years before we started our relationship. We have a lot of fun and spend a lot of time together. However, I find that he can be really selfish sometimes and I am ...

A.   27 July 2009: Yeah, he does appear to be kind of selfish with just that example of selfishness. I would think that he could have waited for you. The cabin experience was not going anywhere, and the fact that you could not go because he did not wait for you...very ... (read in full...)

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