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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. Recently we have been fighting more and more. It isn't physical but i'm feeling that he isn't attracted to me anymore and we he was drunk he was saying some hurtful things to me. I always felt that if he says those things to me when he is drunk it makes me feel that there some truth behind what he says and makes me feel worthless and disrespected and unloved at the same time. Then worst of all he says these things in front of his friends which causes the ultimate humiliation to me. The next day he acts like nothing happened and he tries to be sweet with me. Which i feel like i dont' want anything to do with him that day because he hurt me so much like i said made me feel like i'm nothing. Please help me figure out a way to deal with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): If he feels no remorse and makes no attempt to apologize for his hurting you deeply (in front of friends no less) after you've shown your distress... I don't see why you should be so understanding of his drunken disrespect. He's obviously been making this a habit and not made any attempt to lessen it...
This relationships sounds like its bordering on abusive, and you Know what you need to do if things don't change for the better.
Talk to him... if he doesn't care or take any action, leave.
-Tante Victoire
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