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*ondongirl9
writes:I am 17 and I am in love with a man who is 29 in a few months. He lives with his girlfriend and I have been seeing him on and off for 2 years. He thinks it's just a fun thing and doesn't know how I really feel, I have told him I loved him before but he didn't believe me, or refused to believe it.I know he loves his girlfriend but he's always saying that he can't stay away from me and that he really likes me.. and sometimes he talks about how he doesn't see a future with his girlfriend.I really don't know what to do, I feel like I shouldn't be seeing him because it's putting me in a harder situation but I just can't stay away- I really tried! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): You haven't tried. You either stay away or you don't. There is no middle ground.
Understand he will NEVER leave his girlfriend for you. If he was going to, he would have.
You do yourself and his girlfriend a disservice by continuing to be 'the other woman'. What do you think will happen when she finds out? And she will. It's a matter of when, not if.
It's time you grew up and realised that just because you love someone, it doesn't give you the right to have an affair with them, however terrible their relationship apparently is (it's hardly ever that bad, most cheaters say this to elicit sympathy from people like you).
Flynn 24
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Well if you don't mind being a mistress, than things are cool.
However, at 17 I learned the truth......
Get a hair cut and real man.
Oh.. and tell him
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