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writes:about 6 months ago a boy started to inbox me and we got talking, after abit we got really close, and we did stuff and we lost our v together and after abit he stopped talking to me and got with this other girl in my school, then after 2 months of being with her he wanted me back so we got together and everything was going well, then one day he told me it was over and he wanted me to move on then a week after at a prty his best friend came over and started to kiss me, he found out and said he neever wanted to speak to me again and i had hurt him so bad, what does this mean? please help?
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reader, AgonyAunt22 +, writes (21 April 2011):
Losing your virginity to someone is a very big thing, especially if it was with someone you care a lot about and vice versa for the other person so don't regret anything about that if you do because it was special and it was with someone you care about.
Another thing, because he stopped talking to you and got with another girl then he's hurt you and in an even worser way then you just kissing his best friend because you was officially over when you kissed his best friend and when he got with another girl you wasnt officially together.
So I say talk to him and explain to him that he hurt you and make sure he understands why and how he hurt you.
Then think about whether the kiss with his best friend meant anything becauzse if it didn't then ok. But if it did mean something to you and you like his best friend then you need to tell your ex that you are over him and that he needs to move on because you like his best friend but first find out if his best friend likes you too or you might be humiliated if he doesn't.
Then if you have no feelings for your ex's best friend then talk to your ex and tell him that you didn't mean to hurt him and that you still have feelings for him and the kiss meant nothing to you and see what he says.
Best of luck
Fern.
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