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writes:Hi i'm friends with this lad at my college, we haven't known each other long but get on well. We all hang out at dinner and breaks because we are all in the same classes so its easier. It just lately i have been getting feeling for him and it seriously hurts. Is there anyway to try and get the message across to him that i like him without actually telling him and ways to find out if he likes me back? I don't know if its just my imagination or not or if most guys do this anyway but i keep thinking hes looking at me a lot except i can't tell if hes looking at me or through me and also if i'm sitting next to him sometimes because the tables are quite small if i sit on the end sometimes his leg is touching mine but he doesn't seem to move it quickly. I really don't know what to think, i wanna find out one way or the other if he likes me because on one level i really think he does but then again it could just be me wishing that and that i'm over reacting. So what do you think? and also do you think its just a crush that will go away because if it isn't i don't know what i'll do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): I'd have to say Most likely. i am myself in the exact same situation right now. I am normally quick to socialize with girlz. But there is this girl i am like going out of mind for her. but all that skill i got with other girls was just like gone and i just look at her. It seems like its all i can do. And she just looks back at me as if she is saying the same thing. I wish she could just give a sign. SO i'd tell u to give the guy a somewhat obvious sign. yet not to obvious(in case u need an emergency exit)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 I think that it's quite possible that he likes you, from what you have described. Try This. Next time he leaves his leg pressed up against yours, make a game out of it. Press back and give him a sweet smile. If he participates - well then - you have your answer. If he just looks at you funny, then you haven't let the cat out of the bag and you can resume eating lunch. It's worth a try... Good Luck Sweetie!
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