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i want to help people, i love helping people that i do know so i want to help people i dont.

i live in north west england.

i am currently seeing somebody.

Boys consider me ugly and I feel very low about it, whereas the school regulation does not allow make up or other forms of embellishment. What can I do?

Q.   i am really ugly, i am dark and my hair is sooo curly and frizzy... my face gets so oily and it looks really bad..we wear uniforms in school and not allowed make up although i do put eyeliner...and im not allowed to straighten or colour my hair or ...

A.   16 February 2008: firstly there are allsorts of treatments for your skin. secondly nobody is ugly, every body is a beautiful person, its not whats on the outside remember! we arent allowed to do any of that stuff in our school either but we do it sneakily, to make... (read in full...)

He is sending me mixed signals. Does he like me or not?

Q.   I like this guy well his not really just a guy his one of my close friends. i've liked him for ages and he knows it as well it just i've asked him out before and he said no. since then we have had phone sex, weve gone swimming together and his he ...

A.   28 January 2008: in my experience lads ARE very confusing. i have been in exactly the same situation as you. The trick is to find out whats really going on is to play him at his own game. pretend your moving on, flirt with other lads and you can tell whether he gets ... (read in full...)

Why is he stringing me along? Is he using me or just being a player?

Q.   ok i really like this boy put it all on paper we are a perfect match but he likes this other girl he put in his msn addie "u can search th world but you can never find a girl like mine" i am heatbroken. but the thing is he says i am good looking ...

A.   12 January 2008: have you ever told him you like him? if not then maybe that is why your feeling like this. I am in the same situation right now. Lads are useless at communicating and when they dont know that they are upsetting someone they are absolutely oblivious ... (read in full...)

Do girls enjoy giving oral sex?

Q.   Do girls actually like giving oral sex to guys or what? So many girls seem to have a real issue with it, like feeling subservient or degraded or something. But they don’t have any problem getting it!? What is all this double standards? I...

A.   2 September 2007: i used to hate it but once you feel you are doing it with the right person and you find them really sexy and attractive then it is so much better and the more turned on you are the more you enjoy it. good luck x ... (read in full...)

Is he really into me or does he just see me once a month for sex?

Q.   Is he into me or is it just sex? We have went on trips together and we see each other once a month. We don't spend much time talking on the phone. We usually just call to say hi and ask how each other is doing. We have spent time together with out ...

A.   1 September 2007: that is definately out of order he is in it for the sex and you should ask him what you have asked us and if he says something along the lines of but i really like you but i have ties get rid of him straight away! good luck chick x... (read in full...)

We are ready for intimacy but have a problem with privacy as our houses are always occupied!

Q.   okay me and my gf of 6 months, both feel we are ready and wish to have sex together. The only problem is both our houses are occupied with lots of family so its too hard to get some privacy. Any ideas ? ...

A.   1 September 2007: i have been in the same situation and what we did is organised to go out, to somewhere where nobody would find us. somewhere romantic. i know its really annoying espeacially as you have been together for so long but once you have done it once it ... (read in full...)

Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating?

Q.   Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating? Its only four years. Just look at my parents they're six years apart and they love each other and my friend's parents are fifteen years apart. But when young ...

A.   30 August 2007: it doesnt matter how old you are as long as you love and trust each other, i have dated a much older bloke myself and everybody said it was too big a age gap but we carried on and ignored the people. i think that it would be fine to date somebody ... (read in full...)

I've got no confidence... any advice?

Q.   okay this is gonna sound lame to some of you, but i have no confidence...okay lemme explain, ive had borderline anorexia twice and ahve been thru depression, not a good combination i know. now to add to that ive been screwed around a few times and ...

A.   30 August 2007: first of all i have been through the same thing and i have to admit it does get you down. what i did was i went to councelling (you dont have to) but it does help. nobody is ugly and your definately not unwanted. At least you have stood up and asked ... (read in full...)

I'm 20 and haven't yet even kissed a girl. Am i odd or is this normal?

Q.   My story is a depressing one. I'm 20 and whilst most of my friends keep talking about having sex, I still have yet to kiss a girl. I'm not talking about a quick one on the lips, I mean a proper snog. Never. Am I an odd case or is this fairly comm...

A.   30 August 2007: dont be depressed because unlike a lot of people that would just wait for it to happen, you have come out and tried to look for help and advice. so get out there and go look for the one lucky girl. good luck hun xx... (read in full...)

I want a friend to tell my teacher I love him

Q.   Hiya, i have a real bad problem. For about 8 months now ive really really fancied my teacher, and its beyond a crush, i kind of love him. Hes all im thinking about to be honest. Lately its getting so bad, that when i start college, im gonig to go ...

A.   30 August 2007: well with you leaving school and not seeing him as much it will be a lot easier to get over him. i think you would make a really big mistake if you told him your feelings. i have been in the same position and it only causes you more pain by telling ... (read in full...)

I caught my 12 year old son masturbating. How should I handle this?

Q.   i am a father of a twelve year old boy, and i saw him masturbating,and i blew up, what should i do?...

A.   30 August 2007: everybody does it its natural, dont be too hard on him he is just growing up and its completely normal.... (read in full...)

Why do guys eye up other women? I do so much for his family but he doesn't seem to care about mine.Is there something wrong with our relationship?

Q.   Do i deserve to be treated this way? i am a mother of 4 children...going on 5 children. my common-law husband and i have been together for 11 years. he has been great with the kids, chores around the house, and our sex life is fine.but then problem ...

A.   30 August 2007: guys eye up other women because its their nature and thats what they are like, maybe you could try talking to him and telling him how you feel, if you dont he will never know and it will just carry on. there is nothing wrong wiht your relationship ... (read in full...)

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