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He is much bigger than my ex... will sex with him hurt?

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Question - (19 February 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2007)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hello,

I have only had sex with one other man and have masturbated with my dildo. The dildo I bought is 5.25" long and 4" around as I measured it. My ex-boyfriend was the same size pretty much, which is why I bought it.

My problem now is I'm dating this new great guy and we were making out this weekend and I went to grab his penis and it's kinda fat. I could barely touch my thumb and finger together around it. It's also a little longer than my ex and my toy so it's looked and felt pretty intimidating. Will sex with him hurt because his penis is fat and fatter than I'm used to? I'm a little afraid because I know we're going to have sex soon and I like him a lot. Does anyone have any ideas or maybe tips so it won't be painful?

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntIt will hurt a tiny bit at first probably but you'll get used to it surprisingly quickly. Remember when you lost your virginity? It hurt the first few times but then you were fine right? Well it'll probably be a lot like that this time. Same advice applies, make sure you're well turned on before you try to have sex and keep it safe.

CD

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