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He is married and I want him, not just as an affair!

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Question - (28 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

TO START IT OFF .I MEET HIM AT MY OLD HIGH SCHOOL... I KNEW HE WAS MARRIED.HE IS MARRIED AND I HAVE A WE AND THE FATHER OF MY CHILD BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5 YR.AND HE HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 6 YEAR.ME AND (BILLY) MARRIED MAN HAS MADE AGREEMENT TO HAVE NO FEELING AND NO STRINGS ATTACH TO EACH OTHER.NOW IM 20.AND HES 33.THEY HAVE 3KIDS TOGETHER AND I HAVE ONE with the father of my child.its so hard to stop messing with him.when im with my man. his wife has called me 3 times she has seen my pic and everything . i have spoke to her and her two kids.smile and she still dont have a clue. its much more to tell yall ... how can i tell if he feeling me too

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (7 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntHe's a cheater, he isn't going to leave his life of a wife and 2 kids to continue something with you. One it's because of the fact he wants his children to have a mother and a father as normal life as possible, or the relationship is lacking in one area which he is filling the void by having sex with you. Other than that his life is great. Cheaters stray away from their marriage for a reason. You need to stop having sex with him...you can find a man that's available. He's not!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010):

Dear ms Jones, you have 2 stories here on DC concurrently, please read my response to you in your other post. Perhaps you need to see a psychologist, I really think you need help. The aunts here on DC cannot help you . I do not want to know how many times you are Fing your married man and what you are doing. This is a respectable site and perhaps once you start respecting yourself you may understand what I am saying.

-LoveGirl

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010):

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its been a whole year.. him and i have messed off 2days b4 their 6 year anniversary. too day after her birthday... some time back after he lost his.. now he use her car to see me..i have spoke to his wife at my old high school and everything... a while back she have called me and seen a picture of me.. its hard to stop... we don't even use rubber anymore.. yes i'm on birth control...but he always nut in me... what i dont understand if hes so happy with her why is he coming back to me

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A female reader, angela75 United States +, writes (30 August 2010):

angela75 agony auntyou shouldn't enter one's family.you want someone it is up to you but if the man is married to someone then it is not fair.if he comes then what will happens to his child.consider you as a mother what do you think ?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (30 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntHe's not going to leave his life with his wife and 2 kids for you. All you will be is an affair to him, or his mistress nothing more. Also, he's told you this it's nothing but a no strings attached deal. Chances are his wife probably suspects he's having affair so don't entirely assume she doesn't know. My advice leave the married man alone, he's taken. Instead, concentrate on your relationship with the father of your child.

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