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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everybody, my problem is trivial but im making myself ill with worry and at the moment. I have been seeing a lovely guy for a very short time (two weeks) but those two weeks we spoke to each other everyday and when he was home spent alot of time together. The problem is he is in the forces and has had to go and work away now for 2 months, because of the nature of his job contact is pretty much none existant, but he explained this to me at the start. My actual problem is im tearing myself apart inside worrying that he will never contact me again on his return, or when he can contact he wont. I have had lots of bad luck with men this year and the last guy I was seeing just stopped contacted me and I didnt know the reason why so this has left me very insecure. Has anybody had to deal with this before and how have they got through it. I really like this guy and dont want to stuff it up with my insecurities I just dont know how to deal with them. thanks for listening
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): You are bound to feel insecure with your past record. I know how you feel but dont tar all blokes with the same brush. Just because a person in your past did it doesnt mean it will happen again. Relax, i know that isnt easy right now, but you will build trust over a time. Two weeks isnt very long, so you must really like this guy. Enjoy the times you have together and dont make it miserable while he is away. Go out with your friends, have a laugh, dont put your life on hold. Take up a new hobby, maybe do something with your best friend. The time will pass and if this relationship is meant to be then it will flourish.
take care
xxxx
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