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writes:My lover decided to end our relationship because we were having arguments etc,although we still love each other.I did email him to apologise for the rows and that i would leave him alone...that was a week ago.Anyway he hasn't contacted me but he has been on a website that i use alot and just seeing if iv been there or not and he's been checking up on me on a daily basis.Does that mean,that he misses me and wants me back? I miss him terribly. Reply to this Question
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reader, Vivee  +, writes (25 October 2010):
I think he is just curious about what you are doing lately. Never read too much into things. If he misses you he will call you... Reading into things only causes more unneccessary pain and suffering. If you miss him then call him. Why not? If he doesn't return your call then you have your answer, right? Don't be afraid to act. Ask yourself what is the worse thing that could happen and if it does not involve your death or someone else's you are in the clear. Give him a shout. Remember though, only call once. Don't make multiple calls to him. That would border on psycho and no one wants to be with a psychopath. Only then will you know whether he misses you too. Good luck!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Means he's thinking of you..and keeping tabs on you. I would say it's possible he misses you but i wouldn't make the conclusion he wants you back. Why don't you make a move and talk to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): ~OH MY..What a lucky girl you are..How can one ascertain who is checking up on him/her online..I wish my ex would check on me..Ummmmm...BUT..NOT!, as He went so far as to delete his profile from a site that we were both on..AND sorrowfully I "think" he might have done it to as a means to be totally finished with me..I used to visit his profile faithfully EVERYDAY..I did it as soon as I woke up each morning and all throughout the day and before I went to bed, because looking into his deep loving eyes made my heart feel the most intense, undescribable, safe, loved way that I have ever felt in my life..oh my...I still am very deeply in love with him..BUT..he was not in love with me so I have to let him go, as I want him to be happy..Sure, it hurts..AND..on so many occassions I've wanted to call him but that would be grossly selfish of me and unnaceptably disrespectful of him and unfair to him, as he wants nothing more to do with me..so I honor his demand. I worry about him a lot too. It's been 3 months, since we have communicated, and I've had to turn to a very dear friend whose enduring a similar situation to keep me from falling completely apart..AND..I've also turned to this site here recently..which sometimes makes my pain more intense..All I can say is I REALLY WISH HE, THE ONLY MAN I HAVE EVER LOVED AND STILL LOVE WAS CHECKING ME OUT DAILY...If You Love Him, I would think his behavior is a great thing..BUT..if not, then you might have a reson to be careful and concerned. I HOPE YOU LOVE HIM. Good Luck either way...~
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