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He hooks up and then just wants to be friends?

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Question - (15 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I met this guy at a small gathering just last week and we hung out both friday night and saturday. He was coming onto me a little on friday, but in more of a flirty-friendly way than any other (he didn't come on strong at all), and on saturday we flirted more the sane way and we kinda hooked up. We've been talking since this happened though so I don't really know what it means. Does he just wanna keep it as friends or what?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011):

Sorry- to clarify. We did not have sex. We just had a heavy make out session.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (15 April 2011):

YouWish agony auntWell, a good sign is that he hasn't been avoiding you if the two of you are still talking since the hookup.

I guess the only thing to do is ask! Or better yet, ask him out on a date. A proper one, not just hanging out at someone's house. If he's interested in doing things with you to get to know you as a person, then I'm thinking you're headed for more than a friendship.

However, if he shows no interests in doing things other than sex and flirting and casual no strings attached playing around, then you have your answer.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011):

"hooked up"? as in?... yes, I need clarification. If you two had sex and he keeps talkin to you it could mean many things... friends with benefits, he wants to pursue a relationship, he wants attention, etc. Best thing to do is ask him straight out what his intentions are before you go any further.

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