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*ouise_Jones2007
writes:i've been with my boyfriend for 4 monthz now and we were really happy together but he moved away a month ago 2 leeds and he was texting and phoning me most days saying how much hes missing me and how much he loves me and stuff but i havent heard from him for a week now i've tryed phoning and texting him but hes not answering me so do you think hes left me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Elizabeth that is fantastic!!! I so agree with all of this. If he wants you he will be all over you like a rash. Never cheapen yourself to a man was an expression that my dad taught me. And it is so true. Let him get in touch with you, after two weeks if you haven't heard, phone him and ask him what is going on. If he still doesn't ring or answer his phone then walk away with your head held high and meet someone else.
Take care and life is too short.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Louise, he might be ill or out of town, who knows? If you haven't heard from him and you have tried phoning and sending texts, at this point you probably should leave it alone for another week and see if he gets in touch. If not, phone him one more time, and if you still don't hear from him, you may need to assume that unfortunately, and for whatever reason, perhaps he has indeed decided not to continue.....meantime, try not to worry, and I hope you will hear something soon.
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reader, Elizabeth38017  +, writes (21 March 2007):
Do you have a gut feeling of 'why' he hasn't text'd/called?
To all of the ladies out there, read this.....this is good and oh so true!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." you'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat u any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god! He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be MrRight.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... you'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them
and an entire lifetime to forget them.
THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT.
Good Luck in your decision and don't settle for less than what you deserve!
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