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writes:..my boyfriend was v. nice to me , treated me well n showed so much love but ,i just found out from one of his friends that he was just faking it all these months we have been together!!:((...he has told his friends that i am just a timepass for him and just a puppet in his hands and he is going around with me just for fun sake:((.[this hurts so bad:((]..i tried sorting out with him but he is like i never said all this ...i did trust him but now i feel all shattered he broke my trust on him and played with my feelings...he was the only person i truly loved ... and i still love him...what should i do??...should i give him another chance?..but what if all that i was told is correct??...den i ll just make a fool out of my self by forgiving him...and i don't want to lose my self respect!...how do i teach him a lesson ...?? how do i make him realize my importance in his life??i hope you undrstud my ques i really need some help ..... Reply to this Question
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (1 August 2008):
Definitely go with RJGirl's advice--I completely agree with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): I can certainly understand why you would feel so humiliated! Now, you don't know for sure if this is how your boyfriend really feels, so you have to find out. I would try and see if he comes around if you start making yourself unavailable to him. Be "busy" when he calls or wants to go out, wait a while longer to respond to his calls or text messages, and make him be the one to initiate contact with you. If he truly cares for you, he will be willing to make the effort to keep you in his life. But if what his friend says is true, he will let you go on about your way without a second thought. The only thing you need to bear in mind is that this could go either way, so be prepared to be done with him if his friend was right all along. No one deserves to be walked all over, and you are no exception. Show him that if he isn't willing to make the effort to care for you truly, you aren't willing to stand for it. Good luck and stay strong sweety!
RJGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): Girl. Get you a nice red dress and some heels. Pantyhose too. Dress up to kill. Go in front of him and all his friends and lay it all out in front of them. See how he reacts. If u know he's lying say I'm to good for this crap and walk out the door. If he follows say if its meant to be you'll find a way back but for now I need to be me. If he doesn't don't have any contact with him. It will eat him up knowing he can't have u. Play hard to get and don't give in. Train him. Good luck
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