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41-50,
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writes:OKay so there is this guy i am in LOVE with, and he knows it. But he has a gf, but he says he loves me back. And im obsessed with him and i cry everynight and i need him. any suggestions??
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 February 2011):
Don't believe a word he says.
If a man has a girlfriend, then he's spoken for. him telling you he loves you is utterly meaningless, and a lie. What this man is probably after is a quick thrill which will make you feel like crap afterwards, and ruin your reputation. Keep your hands off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): ask him to leave his girlfriend. He's the one who has a gf yet said he loves you back so it's his responsibility to either break up with you or break up with her. He shouldn't be saying he loves you if he has a gf. But he did say it. he could be just trying to get you to sleep with him. Or maybe he means it and he does love you back. either way he shouldn't pursue anything with you if he has a gf so he needs to choose between you or her. So you have the right to ask him to make that choice. but be prepared if he doesn't choose you and if he doesn't, then just tell yourself it's not meant to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): You sure you got the age right ?
I just cant see someone in that age category spelling the way you do, admitting to crying every night, admit that you are obsessing over some guy because you cant have him ?
Part of me calls troll on this, but lets just say that you are between 36-40, the way you feel about someone else doesnt give you the right to be with that person. The person of your affection is cleary in a committed relationship and you cant have him.
You need to move on and find someone that is interested in you for who you are, and that you find a connection with. As for the crying every night thing, I think you should seek some professional help.
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