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He has a girlfriend but likes me and texts me every day?

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Question - (25 August 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

This guy who has a girlfriend texts me every day. They've been going out for over a year, but like 2 weeks ago he told me that he likes me and how he was confused and mad at himself for liking me, only because he has a girlfriend. But he still talks to me everyday. So I'm confused as to what we even are. And why he still texts me all the time. And why won't he just break up with his girlfriend. What should I say to him about it?!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012):

If this bothers you, why don't you stop replying to his texts, and tell him not to text you no more...otherwise you'll tell his girlfriend?

Unless you like him in return which you haven't actually said, but I'm guessing if you didn't, you'd know what to do about him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012):

Hey there,(:

Ok so first and foremost, if he really liked you he would have broken up with his girlfriend. Second, think about the type of person he is. Do you really like him? If he would do this with one girl he could do it to the next. It isn't worth the stress. He might even be looking for a little booty. Tell him how you feel and give him an ultimatum. If he breaks up with his current girlfriend then there you go. If he doesn't and he's still confused move on. Don't let no boy waste your time sweetie.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2012):

You two are nothing except a possible affair waiting to happen and if you get caught talk will be around the school and you and him will be frowned at.

He still texts you all the time cause he is selfish and probably wants to keep her around till he knows he can date you.

That, or he likes her more and just wants a little fun with you, either way selfish.

The right thing for you to say is that you dont want to hear it anymore till there through, assuming you are interested. Even smarter yet just evoid him and stop replying, cause he'll likely end up doing the same to you eventually.

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