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anonymous
writes:I have been with someone for 5 months, and we have already dropped the "I love yous" and met the parents. Now we have come across some rocky times due to his busy non-work related schedule. He seems not to make time for us or want to bend any plans he has made with friends/sports. Should I stick with it and hope that he comes back around or should I call it with what it is? I need more from our relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): Love is about compromise, and he seems to have lost sight of that. If the love is true, you should be #1, and if he doesn't feel the same way, he should let you know. Just be honest with this guy, and tell him how you feel (I know, much easier said than done!) He may not be as committed as you, or he may not know how to take the relationship to the next level, so he is avoiding you. Just try talking, and know that I will be praying for you. God Bless!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2008): You should be able to do things together and as a couple. If he doesn't want you around then it is a sign. Happened with me-i got so tired of pulling teeth to get him to go anywhere and was going by myself with friends that it pulled us apart.Sad but true.
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