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writes: I'm a woman at the beginning of my forties receiving private English classes from a 29 year old American guy who is employed by a company to teach ESL. I have found out that several times he gets unwanted erections when we meet at my home. He suddenly crosses his legs, moves away from the table, corrects his shirt over his trousers or does not get op if I points at something outside. This is very awkward for both him and me and he has difficulty concentrating on our lesson.What can I do about this? Should I continue to say nothing? Should I say that I know what is going on and ask him not to worry and think of something else?I thought the unwanted erections mainly happend to teens og guys at the beginning of their twenties?It is a problem as it makes the lessons unconcentrated and I learn less from him.
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reader, is_god_alanis +, writes (8 December 2006):
lol aw bless - him how humiliating must it be for him though!
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reader, Goddess24 +, writes (4 December 2006):
 Well I understand that an erection is a normal thing. But He is suppose to be acting in a professional matter. There's a time and a place for everything. It is obvious that this man cannot control himself. This is a serious matter, you're not really learning much and this type of behavior is insulting, Im pretty sure you feel uncomfortable. He shouldnt be teaching he should be seeking help. There's such thing as unwanted erections and many guys suffer from it, it definitely interferes w/ their daily routines. I suggest you call the company and let them know what's going on, and let them know you want a different teacher.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Well, for example sakes, I'm in my late 20's and I still get erections for long period of times. This can be due to various things and thoughts. What you can do is if you're comfortable about it, is tell him that you know what's going on and ask him to not worry about it. It's fine. Though, it probably won't stop his penis from standing to attention every time he sees you or nears you. 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006):
A guy could chub up at any time, you sexy beast.
Try moving the tutoring to a more neutral location like a coffeeshop or booksote. Say you are having painters in or something.
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