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writes:I've been kinda seeing this guy. We're not serious or anything because we live far away from each other but we constantly e-mail each other and when we do see each other (maybe once or twice a month) we have a really great time together. He said that due to his place in his life he's not ready to commit to anything and he doesn't really know what he wants because he has some emotional issues. I'm cool with that because I don't see him too often and I'm just happy when I get to spend time with him.My question is how do I know if he's seeing anyone else? Do I even have the right to know this? I know it's really none of my business but I really like this guy and I want to know. He doesn't seem like someone that would be seeing lots of girls at once but that's not to say he isn't. How do I know? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm 100% sure he's not married.
He's still not totally over his last relationship, has trust issues and is searching for a full time job in the field that he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do like this guy a lot and I do want more but I also know practically that it can't really happen because he's (1) emotionally unavailable due to his own personal issues, (2) we live too far apart and rarely see each other and (3) I'm a lot younger than he is so I'm just starting to figure out my life while he's already well past that time.
I do want more but I know it can't happen, especially considering (1) and (2). Knowing this and knowing that he is free to see whoever he wants, it's still a little bothersome if he is seeing other people. I just find it a bit annoying because I really like him.
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