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writes:I Was with this guy for nearly 2 months. The past week or two we started to argue quite abit.He threatened to break up with me n coz i was angry n upset i said fine! Neither of us rele wanted to break up. He knws i wanna get back with him and i have asked him repeatedly if we can sort it out. We are both un-happy. Last night he txt me saying he doesnt know if he wants to be with me becuase he's hurt n scared im gonna hurt him again. I told him i understand and that im hurt too.He didnt reply. I've cried everynight since i dunno what to do help me?? (btw im 15 and he's 16) Reply to this Question
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reader, kat14 +, writes (27 April 2007):
kat14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks 4 ur help. He called me last night, amazingly!we spoke for over an hour. We both think the other person doesnt show that they love them enough. We both need to tell eachother how we are feeling more. we also both spoke about a few things the other persons does which upsets us. For example he checks out other girls when with me and tells me, which makes me feel like im not good enough. I think things may be on the mend. Thanks again.
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (26 April 2007):
I think you both need to have a long hard look at the reasons why you ended up arguing so much, and attempt to change the circumstances surrounding this for this relationship to work.
From his side, well relationships are based on trust, and part of that trust involves looking out for each other. If he doesnt feel that you will do that, then its something that I guess you have to earn over a period of time.
Clearly you both do have feelings for each other - the fact you are so upset and that you arguing has the power to upset him so much - but is this really a productive relationship for you to both be in. If you decide it is then you both need to accept that it will most likely be a lot of hard work
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