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anonymous
writes:hey everyone, I am 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Our relationship has been great and I know he loves me and I really love him but the only problem is that he doesn't seem to want to have sex with me. We cuddle and makeout but he never wants to take it any further than that. I am still a virgin and I really feel like im ready but he just doesn't seem interested even if I bring it up. It honestly makes me feel horribly unattractive. I dont think the reason is because hes scared seeing how he isn't a virgin. Can someone please help me understand why hes being like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): When you want to take it further... on the bed or sofa etc. distract him by saying something, lay on top of him facing him (only will work if you normally do this), stick pressure on his genital area with your pussy (with clothes on), kiss him... then make out, you will know if he gets an erection or not - if he does, be extra sweet, kiss him (like crazy!), tell him how you feel and ask him to deflorate you.
You might need to remind him about sex so try humping him after, if he still not want... lay beside him (if on bed) stick your hand down there and rub your clit and sound sexy.
If he still not want to have sex (I assume he is just very respectful of you) after this then your relationship is good enough as dead. (perhaps he is gay/cheating)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): Maybe he respects you and doesn't want to mess things up. Maybe you haven't made it completely clear to him that you're ready to take things further physically. Let him know, then see where it goes from there.
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