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writes: I am a girl of 21 i have this boy friend who i truly love and he also claim to love me we have been dating for 4months but resently he has realy changed he doesnt call me as he use to and even yesterday i called him and he refused picking up i even text him he refused to reply to me pls help me does he stil love me or he is tired of me or is it because it is a sexfree relationship?
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 How long has it been since you last went out on a date with him or spoke on the phone?
You say its a relationship without sex. Have the two of you talked about the reason you're not sexual? I mean, I certainly don't advocate getting into bed together until you've had a chance to go out together numerous times and see how compatible you might (or sometimes might not) be.
If you have discussed it and you've let him know you're not ready to take it to the next level, what was his reaction?
Have there been other issues that have come up with you? Disagreements on relatively minor matters? What is it like when you spend time together? Relaxed, fun, enjoyable, able to talk and laugh freely, both about "silly" things and about what you both want for your lives? What your goals and values are?
Or, on the other hand, are things a bit tense, you feel as if you're walking on eggshells sometimes, or one of you tends to be critical, demanding, whiny, difficult, opinionated?
If the negative qualities outweigh the enjoyable ones, that could be one reason he's not calling so often, or worse, not picking up the phone. By the way, how do you know he didn't have his cell turned off when you called?
Maybe you need to have a talk with him and tell him how you feel and ask what he thinks about the relationship.
Alternatively, if you don't manage to get hold of him at all, and he doesn't contact you, you might have to consider the relationship is at an end.
Hope you're able to work things out, however!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): well coming from a guy my self it depends if he is or is not going through puberty .because of horomones boys get realy angry belive me so he might be to angry at anything (but never a girlfreind)to reply.guys also need their 'alone' time but that doesnt mean hes with other girls.alone time is spending time with their old mates because their are like springs just let them spring back and thorth
youres sincerely jedd wiltshire/
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reader, Betherly  +, writes (20 February 2011):
Has he got an email? Mane try emailing him to see what's up. You could even try popping round to his house sometime, could you think of anything you could have done to upset him? Ring him again and if he doesn't answer leave an answer phone message saying that you need to chat and that your very worried about him x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): Stop contacting him and let him contact you.
If he doesnt then there is your answer.
Give him chance to miss you xx
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