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anonymous
writes:Hi. So, about two months ago, I started dating this guy. I really really like him, and he's basically one of the kindest and sweetest people I'll ever meet. He treats me very well and tries his best to make me happy.Thing is, not long before he started dating me, he used to date my ex best friend. For only a short while, but still. She ended up dumping him because she thought he was "annoying" and "not smart enough for her". All this time I haven't seen these two as part of his flaws, so I guess it's just me having a different point of you compared to her.Ever since I started going out with him, my friends have been nothing but negative. They all look down on him and whenever I tell them he'll be coming along with me wherever we might go to, they suddenly just go like "Oh." and act as if they'll be doing me a favour by tolerating him. Recently, we went to my friend's birthday party, and she was anything but pleased to see him. She started whispering things to her friends when I showed up with him, and that made my boyfriend feel extremely bad and leave the party.I'm really, really angry and devastated because of this attidute. I don't know what's wrong, or how I can handle things. It's also really getting to my boyfriend, and he feels like he's not good enough. He's a sensitive guy, and ended up crying about his friends neglecting him and not inviting him to go anywhere anymore. I'm really lost in this situation. How should I handle it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): that sounds horrible.
and you should be angry about your friends, i have had the same thing:) just tell those friends of yours that you love him and they have to understand that they are very rude and incredibly selfish when not even trying to co-op with him. it's not like they know him, right?
i get so angry with these sort of things...
good luck,
and dont even think of leaving your dude if you love him:3
hugs,
anon
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