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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My fiance was out drinking one night and decided to dance with some chick, and he said she kissed him and he pushed her off and walked away. This happened three weeks before our wedding. how do i forgive him and move forward?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): I think you need to tell him your feelings.keep in mind, he told you about it-he was communicating with youhe was honest - some men wont say anything at all to their partners in fear of their reaction.he pushed her away - if he is being honest about that then this is great because you now know he probably wont be easily seduced by other women while drunk.I understand you feel hurt and you probably have many things going on in your mind about what happen,this is why its very importatnt to talk with him about it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 September 2009):
Well he came clean with you, and he said that she tried to kiss him and he pushed her away. So he was honest at least. He could have said nothing. Maybe sit him down and tell him how you feel and that you're unhappy this has happened before your wedding. See how he responds. In terms of forgiving, you just have to take your time and build yoour trust up in him again. Remember though, he was honest and he did say that he pushed her away. He could have said nothing, so believe me that counts for something.
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