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writes: I spent the nite with a male who has been a friend of mine for two years. We had sex and he claims he was too drunk to remember it despite the fact that the very next day he freaked out and continually asked me if I was on the pil.Do you think he liked me at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): We have different values, you and I, so you will need to bear with me. Firstly, I do agree with Frank, in what he says about this fellow having the option to use this opportunity to initiate a more exclusive relationship with you. The guy is not doing that..so what do his actions tell you? Always use common sense and see this for what it really is. Sex and emotions blind a woman and she weakens and denies the truth of the situation. Sweety, I think he's more worried about his own butt, here-thus his anxiety over whether you are on the pill. The shocking reality has hit him like a ton of bricks. The problem with one night, casual sex, dear is "sex drives the heart" for most females. It's a physical manifestation of sharing the heart. It does not work this way for a lot of men and I am sorry you were with a young man who does not value you. Let this be a life lesson and please leave him in the dust and go find someone who values you, your heart and what you have to give. Good luck, dear
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (21 November 2006):
 i think if you reminded him what he did and he was really out of it, he might just be worried he got you pregnant. based on what you wrote it is entirely possible that he doesn't like you at all but just wants to make sure he doesn't get in trouble by making sure ur not pregnant.. but then again guys like sex.. so maybe he does like sex with you. not enough info really.. to tell if he actually likes you
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (21 November 2006):
 Hi There,
Speaking from a man's view, I think he is acting like he likes you enough to have sex with you, but does not want to have a serious relationship with you.
If he really liked you enough, he would have used this as an opportunity to get into a relationship with you.
The only other thing I can think of, is that he is feeling guilty for what happened, and that might be why he is having trouble facing you. Maybe he feels like he took advantage of the situation.
-Frank B Kermit
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