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He cheated to be with me, now is he cheating on me?

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Question - (28 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2010)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, *ailie19 writes:

Hi Cupid, I have a relationship problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for around 1year. At the time when we first met, I was in a rocky long distance relationship and he had a girlfriend of 4months. I began liking him but didn't act upon it and shortly aftwards my relationship ended. We got closer and he ended up cheating on his girlfriend for a few months with me, before breaking up with her to be with me. Recently he's been spending a lot of time with a girl he met at work and I cannot stop the thoughts of him cheating on me. I realise this could be nothing but my insecurites are creating a distance between him and I.

I could really do with some advice.

once a cheater always a cheater?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2010):

If he cheated to be with you, then he will cheat to be with someone else. You know how many relationships survive when a guy cheats on a woman and leaves her for his mistress. About 12%. The rest all fail. Did deeper and see what he's up to. And remember that if he has cheated, you've learnt a lesson. Never cheat, and never take on a cheat.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010):

Once a cheat generally always a cheat, it's just karma for you, you made someone feel this way and now it's happening to you.

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