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writes:I have been dating this guy for 2 years and we just had a baby. A few weeks ago I found out that he has another woman 7 months pregnant. So I start investigating about their relationship and turns out they were off and on during the whole time we have been dating. He says that he loves me and wants us to be together. But he still cant tell me why he was still seeing her even after I was already pregnant. And if that wasnt bad enough he gets her pregnant too and hides it from me! He said he told her not to have the baby and to leave him alone because he wanted to be with me. Like that really makes things better but ok. So my question is this: Even if I could get past him having a baby with her how do I deal with trusting him, adjusting to this other baby, or if I can even do all those things. No matter how great things have been over the last 6 months (that he hasnt been cheating)I am still hurt. What advice do you have for me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): he sounds a real charmer. im thinking the other girl got the better deal here. wise up, he is a bad one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): I can't imagine how difficult this situation must be for you, but this person has done nothing to earn your trust. He has behaved like an animal. Can you rely on family and friends to help you through this without the guy? I don't imagine he's going to suddenly develop a sense of ethical behavior after the way he treated you over the course of several MONTHS. He had plenty of opportunities to think twice about sleeping with someone else while you were pregnant, but he didn't. Why should you waste any more of your life on someone who treats you like garbage? Demand more from people! You deserve to be loved an respected. Bottom line.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 He cheats on you for a long time. Then tells the woman he gets pregnant to kill their child and piss off. In the mean time he claims he really wants to be with you. Lucky you.
Open your eyes girl and see.
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