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writes:i met this guy 5 months ago,i wasnt that keen to begin with,but he kept chasing me so i gave in,and we decided to meet,we are both in our 40s,he has never been married before and has had a few bad relationships in the past and finds it hard to trust women.we have grown very close over the last few months and he stays at my house most nights,i love him to bits,in the beginning and recently he is always joking about moving in,so i said ok you can,but then he turns round and says he is not sure what he wants,he is having trouble getting his head round all of this.so i keep getting upset because from the beginning i thought this is what he wants.so i some times i look abit needy.i think he finds it hard to show his feelings,i asked him does he love me and he replys he doesnt know,he also pretends he doesnt care if i went of with another bloke,but then trys to make me jealous.and is always asking me do i love him.he is decorating my house and tells me he shows his love in things he does.do i step back and see what happens or what.as he just changes his mind from week to the next.all he tells me is good things come to those who wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): Well as you have both had bad relationships he is probably scared that this one will go the wrong way as well,but that isn't a bad thing!He probably just needs time to get his head around the fact that this relationship is serious.He just needs time to get his head around things and he does luv you and really wants 2 move in with you he's just picking his moment!
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