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writes:HiI met this guy few years ago and we were like the best friends ever and then we fell in love with each other but there's this problem he had something with this girl a time ago she was totally in love with him and he loved her too but things happend and she wasnt allowed to see him anymore so this girl couldnt live without him and left everything behind for him her parents her house now she has nothing..only himNow he says he cant leave her because he feels responsible for he cant dump her she will have nothinbut he says that he still loves me..what should i do? should i get out of his life? i tried staying best friends but it kinda hurts..
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (9 January 2011):
All you need to focus on is him saying he is not dumping her. Absolutely forget the reasons why he is not leaving her...just know he is not leaving her. I have been in this situation all I can say is try hard not to be in this situation again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): Correction: You fell in love with him. He wants her and you believe his sorry ass excuses so he can keep you as his personal delivery piece..I bet all he has to do is text and you come runnin. You hurt for a reason..time to listen to it...reason that is.
Women need to stop letting men run this game on them. Why are men dogs? We can be b/c look how easy it is.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 January 2011):
Yes, definitely get out of his life. He could dump her any time he likes. But he's choosing not to. Instead, he's choosing to stay, which means that he wants her and not you I'm afraid.
Never be second best. You can do better than this guy, who has lied to you and will continue to hurt you.
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