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writes: My fiance recently called off our engagement, because he said I forced him to propose. He said he never wanted to get married but since I would leave he asked. He was the one who pushed to have an engagement party, and he told all his childhood friends and family within second of me saying yes. What should I do now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006):
I dont know how the guy is supposed to be a 'cad'.
On sober reflection, after weighing things over he decided that he wasnt ready to be married to you. Its the mature thing to break off the engagement now, rather than to avoid conflict by just going along with your plans.
Would you rather you two have years of fighting before the eventual divorce?
The thing to do is take a break now and then get back together after a few months and see if you can both agree on the status of your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): I think he has got 'cold feet' and looking for excuses for a way out. You have had a lucky escape, grab it with both hands and tell him to get lost!
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): I think you should thank God that you found out before the wedding what an immature cad he is....sorry, but I don't believe that you forced him to propose, how ridiculous, this guy does not have what it takes to be your man,integrity..
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