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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): no it does not....try with 1 finger first (whoever's doing it to unless your doing it to yourself but anyways) then when your ready there goes 2 fingers
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): It hurt me, but I was nervous and not relaxed and the guys hands were huge. The second guy had really small fingers, and it felt amazing. When I do it myself, it doesn't hurt but it doesn't feel good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Personally, all the times i've been fingered it's not painful at all and it just feels good. I'm still a virgin, but everyone says sex is what realllly hurts the first time. If it hurts at all being fingered, just tell the guy to take it easy. It should be fine though. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): i was hooking up with this guy, for about an hour and within that hour he fingered me maybe 4 times. the first time it hurt a lot, the second time it hurt a lot but not as bad as the first time, the third time it didnt hurt but it didnt feel good, and the fourth time hurt a little. i guess, it depends what direction hes putting it in how hard he is fingering you and how often. i dont know, ive only done it once but i hope this helped. his fingers were big!
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reader, lena +, writes (27 December 2006):
 nope it doesn't hurt. try it yourself before he goes to do it. you may be tight and if your not relaxed and all tensed it may hurt. just chill relax and enjoy, if it hurts tell him.
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reader, goodaz +, writes (23 December 2006):
 hi! my first time was great,just tell him to be gentle,go slow and maybe stimulate the outside area(clitoris/all over) first and you should be fine.xxx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006): some moments it'll hurt just for a bit. but that feels kinda good. and afterwards is good as well. but I dunno if thats just me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): when you are alone, try it yourself. it shouldnt be bad, but experiment if you're worried about it
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reader, scared16 +, writes (17 December 2006):
 jus keep telling him how u like it. if its your first time just ask him 2 go slow n b gentle. its not that it hurts but sometimes u may feel a little discomfort. nuthin 2 worry about tho! x x x
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reader, forgetmenot +, writes (13 December 2006):
 not if he does it right but he's not a mind reader so you're going to have to talk him through it. If something's not comfortable, tell him it's not. If something feels good, tell him about it. You can also direct him with your hands to help find a pressure that's good for you. Just try keep communication open and it should be enjoyable.
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reader, vixy  +, writes (7 December 2006):
yes and no. depends if your wet enough and if the person goes slow.
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reader, honkifuluvnicole  +, writes (5 December 2006):
 It can, but it can also be really really nice. Be sure that you are wet enough, he can do that by stimulating your clitoris. If it hurts, tell him to go slow, and by the time he is in, it will start feeling good. Dont worry about it and be sure to relax.
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