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Having some trouble...should I wait for her to text me? Or should I try again?

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Question - (3 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been talking to this girl that i really like for about a month before we hung out. She would text me everyday to talk and if she didn't text me i would text her and she would be happier. We talked about dating over the summer and she i knew she was real into it because she asked me if i was serious about it. Then we hung out on Friday and had a lot of fun, we hooked up for the first time and she told me she'd text me when i got home. When i got home she did text me and we talked for a little bit and then she started acting like almost annoyed but she said she was on the phone and she'll talk to me later. She didn't text me back that night so i waited the next day for her to text me. She never texted me then so i texted her but she never answered. I asked her later if she was mad at me but she still didn't answer. I went to school on Monday and saw her there and she said she wasn't mad she just had dance all weekend. It was alot different in school though, she payed less attention to me and she didn't say bye or give me the hug she usually gives. I texted her that night and said i feel like you dont want to talk to me so if its true tell me i dont want to bother you. she said she needed to think about things because she isnt going to home that often in the summer and itd be unfair to me if we could never go out together, but she still wanted to talk and hang out. i felt a little better but she acted the same way in school the next day and didn't say bye again. i was just wondering what i should do. my sister said i should stop texting her and if she really wanted to talk she would text me. but i really want to talk to her it makes me feel better. i just need some advice because im sick of feeling like shit.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009):

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we have class together every day and i talk to her for about 5 hours in school. but i feel more left out now when she's with her friends when i used to be involved. texting just shows me that she actually wants to talk to me still

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