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writes:i am having real troubles with getting over my Ex. We were together for just over a year and had a messy break up (with cheating on his part) - and after taking him back, he later broke up with ME! 2 weeks later he is seeing a new girl - a girl who he knew i never liked to begin with. i cant get him out of my mind and i'm getting really depressed. i have tried to talk things through with him and get some kind of closure, but it's so hard to move on when i keep bumping into him with his new Girlfriend. i really need some help, i've never felt so low in my life. Please can you give me some advice!
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reader, bellaa  +, writes (10 October 2008):
i think tour problem needs time when you find someone new and try to choose someone good you will forget him try to think that this guy or your relationship was a dream and when you see him try to never look at his eyes or his face think that it's the first time that you see him try this way to get over him and when you will find someone new you will forget him by the time good luck
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reader, shiraz +, writes (10 October 2008):
hiyah o this is so hard and its such a bad situation you find your the one hurting, cannot move on and you did nothing wrong! how its fair i dont know all i can say is from experiance it does get better. he hurt you your worth ten of him so keep that in mind and besides 3 months down the line his new gf will prob see him for what and who he really is and shell be in the same boat. you were so forgiving that your still hanging on and i know its so hard but you have to let go before it wrecks you as a person until eventually you have no hope of something new.
the fact he moved on after two weeks says a lot you reall want that in your life? yeah you had good times and god its miserable on your own but id rather be alone than go through what he keeps putting you through, go out and have fun mend your heart your way dont play to his tune no more think of his as history and find yourself again.
Break ups are hard but you come out the other end shining a better person for it use this time for you time and enjoy the new life youve find yourself thrown into you might enjoy it - i hope all works out - you should feel nothing but sympathy for his gf you know him and she will too ps its ok to wallow in self pity for a bit titanic, westlife cd and ben & jerrys do the trick! but you cant stay low for too long or hes taken all of you - get it back enjoyy best of luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): I always find that the best way to get over someone is to see someone else, they really take your mind off it. You also develop a new love for them and totally forget about your ex.
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