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writes:Hey, got a problem maybe someone can help me out.I'm 21, been single all me life :( not been the happiest either since being bullied at school, been along the anti depressant route and recently got a job and sorted my life out. When I'm not at work i'm either rallyin or racin or on the internet. I chat to loads of people on the net, most of them are younger than me. I have feelings for a girl who has just turned 16 and when I am not in contact with her for even as little as a full 24 hours, i get worried as to whether she is alright or not and i text her to know she's fine. We then text for hours on end. The problem is, she had a bf, who cheated on her, and I know she didnt deserve to be treated like that and know that i couldnt hurt her like he has, the trouble is she doesnt know i have these feelings for her and I don't know how to tell her, I know I have nothing to lose, but am scared that being rejected too many times will lead back to me being depressed again and feeling unwanted. Would she bother even textin or talkin to me unless she felt i was a good friend, the trouble is i am so confused about our age, our families etc etc. She has just been on holidays and we ave kept in little touch through bebo, but i cant help wishin we were more.
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reader, lozz_1_6 +, writes (14 August 2006):
 all i can say is to tell her how you feel, you never know your luck, if she doesnt return those feelings then thats life, but dont go getting depressed over it, i have been there personally and its not nice at all, but life goes on,and a 16 year old dating a 21 year old isnt that much of an age gap, just make sure she is comfortable about it first, but i wish you luck, please tell her because you will be forever wondering and it will put your mind at ease, good luck xx
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