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writes:So, I met this girl at a friends party and we've been talking regularly for about 3 weeks. The other day she told me that she --"feels like she's known me forever and that we're already bff's but in a diff kind of way in a male and female way like when a girl and guy talk." She also said if im not married within 3 years, im definitely calling u up lol n not to say that you'd be my last resort because you're awesome and thats of course up to u lol--u may hve people in mind already lol"She's always telling me how great I am, making little jokes about us getting married, and inviting me to places like vegas with her friends or to visit mexico with her family. I may be completely overeating and over thinking this, but I haven't been able to reach her for 2 days, and not for lack of trying either. She offered to pick me up from the airport so I texted her telling her my flight was delayed, then I called her later that evening, but didn't get an answer. The next day she still hadn't got back to me so in the afternoon I texted her. She still hasn't hit me back yet, and I'm pretty sure she was on facebook and didnt respond to my hello in chat. I really like this girl, which doesn't happen every day. So, my question is what's the deal with this radio silence? Is she just busy, playing hard to get, or telling me to go kick rocks?
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reader, Solidus +, writes (12 January 2011):
Solidus is verified as being by the original poster of the question She just got back to me, she broke her touch screen on her phone. So yeah, she's not mad at me at all, but she confided to me that she is stressed about bills and stuff.
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reader, Solidus +, writes (12 January 2011):
Solidus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou misunderstood me, Marinnaaa. She never said anything about us getting married in Vegas. Her friend's birthday is coming up and she just suggested I tag along because it would be fun.
Even though we just met a few weeks ago, we were becoming really close pretty fast. I didn't want to overload her or anything so I would sometimes decide to not contact her, but to my surprise she'd call or text me.
Let's just say I enjoyed our conversations and that I miss talking to her.
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reader, Solidus +, writes (11 January 2011):
Solidus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo its Tuesday now, I'm going to wait until Friday to see if she contacts me. If she doesn't by then I'll call her or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): She obviously likes you from what you've been saying, there's any number of reasons why she might not be replying. There is the possibility that her phone is dead or something, although that sounds unlikely. She might be afraid that she came on too strong though and so decided to back off a bit? Give it another couple of days and she should reply, or let her know you'd like to talk to her, of course if you don't want to seem desperate just explain that you really like her and hope she wants to talk too but respect it if she doesn't, I might be wrong but nagging might make you come on a bit strong and she might get a bit worried.
Hope this was some help :)
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