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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:fairly recently this guy told me, as a friend, that he doesn't think he'll want to be in a relationship anytime soon, because he has bad luck with women; always finding ones that end up screwing him over in the end. I tried to convince him otherwise, without saying I was one of those who wouldn't. him and I have been hanging out more than we used to. he is naturally a very outgoing type of person, so I wasn't really taking his actions for anything more than him just being himself, but something has changed...in a group of friends, when normally he would do his thing and I would do mine, he is now bringing me into his conversations. if I am sitting, sort of somber, he'll quit doing whatever he is doing and ask what's wrong; telling me I should smile, that I look prettier when I do. then he said if I smile the whole night he'll show me his ass (him being a goof), but it made me laugh.I've also noticed that he keeps showing up where I am. he asked the days I worked, and on those days he doesn't come around to visit his friend (my roomy) but on the days I don't work he is here all day. also, if I'm hanging out with the boys and I go to bed, he will leave 5 or less mins after I do; even though before he showed no signs of leaving.he also stays inside and talks to me while all his friend go out to smoke, even though he is a smoker too.his little brother, who also is friends with my roomy, mentioned to one of my friends that A (the guy I'm talking about) and him had been talking about me the night before, but he never said what about. my mum even picked up on something when she saw him, before I had mentioned anything. I just, I don't know, maybe it's just me but it feels like something has shifted... what does it sound like to y'all? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2011):
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