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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now. I moved to Europe so that we can stay together. But since moving here our relationship has been falling apart. We have spent a lot more time together since moving (Since neither one of us friends out here) and I think for the first time we are seeing how different we are. We don't seem to agree on anything. Can this be fixed. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (30 June 2008):
 We do need more details to help you. We could say, 'yes it can be fixed' or 'no it can't be fixed' but that would just be guessing on our part.
Moving is stressful, living together for the first time is stressful, living in a new country is stressful, if the new country has a very different culture than the one you moved from, that is stressful. By this move, you've already put yourself into a high stress situation...
Do you agree on your long term goals? Does he support you emotionally and vice versa?
What are the disagreements about? Are they major or minor?
Sorry for all the questions, but there's really not enough to go on to give you concrete advice.
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reader, aschmit3 +, writes (30 June 2008):
your question is very vague. can you please provide more details as to what kind of disagreements your having? i don't know if your arugeing about wallpaper or about having kids.
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