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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently a man i am desperately in love with has moved to the other side of the world for two years. Before going he came to visit me at college and told me (when drunk... :/?) that he loves me and i'll be his one day. now he's gone and all i can think about is being with him when he gets back. i feel like i cant carry on with my life while he's not here. obviously im expecting him to get with other girls while he's out there but the thought of that breaks my heart. i dont feel like i could even look at another guy i'm so in love with him. it makes it worse that i dont know whether what he said when he visited is what he truly meant or if he was just drunk. now i dont know if it's filled my head with false hope or if its something to look forward to.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Well if he was drunk then hunny its really hard to tell if he meant it. If he loved you then i think he would have left contact details for you to be able to keep in touch with him. Am guessing he never as if he had you could ask him if he meant it. I know its hard when you love someone but if he is away for two years it is likely he will forget all about what he said to you and you will be left hurting again if he returns in two years and you are waiting for him.
Destiny has a funny way of finding us so if it is meant to be it will happen. But for now you need to accept that he is gone and remember he may never come back again, so you need to move on with your life and accept that he is not with you. Go and date other guys and make the most of your life. If he is meant for you then time will tell, but dont think about it for now as it will drive you crazy. Goodluck Hunny.
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