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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a male narcissist? If so, could you share any experiences? Behavior examples?Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): I think the worst thing about them is they are the perfect actors .They literally have no concious about lying or misleading.They can actually pass a lie detector test while lying.The reason is there is a missing feeling of guilt or remorse for them.I know a guy that did over 200 women and each was begging for more when he dumped them.
I think it is like the bad boy attraction.Girls flock to them and run from the nice guy.Like a moth to the flame.
I agree best thing to do is run if you can, there is no fixing this train wreck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): I have.... life with him sucks... Glad to say were no longer together... Life is far more easier to live without a person complaining almost about anything when were but wouldn't say a word outside our home. Almost everyone in the office says he's such a nice person. If only they knew how he'd describe each of them behind their back. We always ended up figthing whenever I defend them....
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (3 May 2009):
 I agree with SDesire. true narcissist have
Issues and the will never change. It's not
About looking at themselves in the mirror
All the time., it goes deeper than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Ok I must have a different understanding of the word because I just thought it meant he knows he is really good looking. None of that other stuff that satindesire mentioned has ever happened to me. Thats really scary and if your guy does all that then yeah you should probably leave. Sorry, I thought it was thinking they are pretty people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): I have been with one for 4 1/2 years and I have loved it. The way that I see it is, he thinks that he is the most beautiful person in the world (he is really really hot)and he has chosen me to be his wife. This makes me feel like I am super beautiful because he is SOOO judgemental and rude about everyone elses appearances, but always very sweet and complementing me and how I look. If you don't mind the fact that he is always looking at himself in mirrors and whenever your in a parking lot he looks at himself in all the car reflections then I don't see the problem. It doesn't make them bad people, it just means they are very aware that they are great looking guys. I would just try and see it as he thinks you are good looking enough to be with him. Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Has this been diagnosed by a mental health professional? If so, you should get information from them, or do an online search for DSM 4 and look for the entry for narcissistic personality disorder. You can then check the criteria.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (1 May 2009):
Yes!! All they do is talk about themselves
And they never see reality for what it is.
They manipulate and change situations
Around to make them look like the good guy .
They can make your life hell if you let them.Best
thing to do is run from these guys.
Some people think that these people are
In love with themselves, but these people
Are insecure and have a self loathing
About themselves. Narcissm is a personality
Disorder usually cause due to a painful childhood.
I miss my guy but can't stand him at the same time.
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