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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm a male who has a really hard time talking to females (other than the ones I need to like teachers, family, co-workers, management etc..)and this is creating problems for me because I feel through lack of confidence I am missing out on opportunities which I regret later on.I have never had any friends who are girls and I think its a really weird feeling to approach a female who I dont know and think is attractive and "chat them up".I am not scared of rejection I just feel really akward and never know what to say and when I do have an idea of what i want to say shortly before I open my mouth I draw a blank :\.Is there any General advice or personal experience someone has gone through that relates to my situation?I feel really bad :(
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reader, whiteshadow  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Dont worry about chatting girls up etc Just be yourself and i am well sure you will meet someone without having to impress or act confident or whatever it is that you feel your not.
I am quite a loud girl, but when i really like someone i shy away. Its natural although i do wish i had mroe confidence and knew wot to say to that person but i do think that if somethings ment to be it will happen through its own time :)
Good luck anyways xxxxxxxx
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