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writes: I am very much in love with my husband of seven and a half years. For some reason, I still seem to look forward to seeing my ex-husband whenever i occassionally visit my daughter and grand-daughter. We were friends for years and when we divorced, we never really got any closure. He's asking to see me but I'm almost afraid of what would be said. Am I a fool, even though I'm not attracted to him or just being silly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): are u still sexually attracted to your ex? i think you are worried that perhaps your feeling will be revealed to him if you see him alone. if so, then better leave some things unsaid. you wouldn't want to open up what could be a messy can of worms. maybe you are just remembering the goods times and the friendship you shared but you know yourself and what you are feeling goes a bit deeper.
in this sitation please leave well alone. you are happily married and if any sexy though occur then best run home to your hubby and have your dirty way with him. he will be surpised to say the least but then you can perhaps use this happy co existence with your ex to spice up your sex life with your hubby.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): You said it yourself, you were friends for years. Just because the marriage didn't work, the friendship can remain.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (9 May 2009):
 What exactly do you want? What are you afraid you might say? You had a relationship with your ex' which involved a child so it isn't surprising that you feel it wasn't all bad. I don't suppose you have discussed this with your present husband. Would he be jealous?Some people can have an open mature friendship with their ex'. Others need distance. If you decide on the former don't leave your present husband out of the equation or trouble will eventually land on your doorstep 'big time'.
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