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Guy won't make first move, should the girl do it then?

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Question - (3 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2007)
A female China age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i was formally introduced to this guy at a function one day, but after that, we would keep eyeing each other, having stolen glances at each other, and this has been going on for almost 6 months now! i know he likes me, and i think he knows i like him too. i can manage to give him small smiles but i tend to look away since i'm a bit shy of smiling openly at him for too long. but he's not doing anything for us to meet again! he has come close to me in a few occasions but nothing more. i'm so frustrated! please help! i really like him. and what should i do short of being the one to initiate the first move?

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (3 November 2007):

dearkelja agony auntI think you'll need to start talking to him. Find out about his hobbies, music, what kind of car he drives. Just start a conversation. It could be he is shy too. Going up and talking to someone is not making a move, it's just being friendly. Once you've given him this indication of interest he will likely take things in his own hands.

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