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writes:I'm interning at an insurance company, this is my second week. I'm a headhunter, this guy is an insurance agent so sometimes he's in the office, sometimes not. Anyway first time i met him was last week at the door. He was staring at me for quite some time as i pushed it open for him and then rushed past.If we ever see each other face to face, he would look and make eye contact. We are from different departments, he has to pass my cubicle to get out of the office and i sit in a corner. whenever he walks past, he would glance or stare, depending. he did that many times yesterday. but today not really. and he was pretty much glued to his seat. :/he's mostly with guys or is alone or with his boss and is close to one of the boys in my department. i dont see him being particularly talkative or anything. and he gives off his rather "quiet, cool vibe". he's really soft spoken too. im abit cautious with this kinda things in workplaces, but what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): Hey ....you know am kinda in the exact same position as you...so i know how you feel & it can get sometimes fustrating not knowing....well why dont you talk to him more next time he comes..just talk general stuff,make eye contact, then keep doing that things should move further from there if his interested. Good luck..(~^,)
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reader, mint +, writes (14 May 2010):
 i think you should just wait and see what happens
and if you're really into him then do something different to make him notice you - bright red lipstick or a snazzy new haircut
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (14 May 2010):
 Would you like to strike up a conversation with him?
If so, then next time you see him just say smile and say something. "Hello, how are you?" Just to show you are interested (if in fact you are, but in any case, just out of sheer courtesy) and see how he responds.
It's good, though, to be cautious since you work together (dating situations at work may be fine, SO LONG AS the two people involved are getting on well and doing a good job.)
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