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Giving him space and being independent! How do I do this?

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Question - (24 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *hristinekelly writes:

Hiya!!

I need help!!

Ive being seeing this guy on and off like mad since about christmas time!!

We are also great friends and we get on so well!!

I don't know why though but lately i noticed were drifting apart we were together on tuesday and had a abs brill day and we really had a brilliant time and enjoyed being with each other but now i no its not that im totally blameless but hes being in a really bad mood i don't know why but he seems like he doesnt want to talk to me much and it really hurts me cos i actually really like him!!

People think hes being controlling to me but i don't see it at all i just notice him as being good to me and looking out for me!!

My real question is i think im very dependant on him i wanna stop it though and be able to get away from being so dependant on him every hour of every day!!

i dont know why but i noticed that when i'm not with him or when hes not texting me the whole time i'm always worrying i tink im suffering from anxiety though!!

Please help :(

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (25 July 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntThe key thing about having a successful relationship is not losing yourself in it. If you like playing soccer then keep playing if you like hanging out with your friends on a friday night then hang out with them. Don't allow your relationship to be the centre and only facet of your life. If you can do this you wont suffer from anxiety over what your BF is doing because you will have other things to focus on too.

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