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writes:Me and my boyfriend are expecting our first baby together. Last night he asked me to give him some space to think. We don't really fight, but we don't really talk either. Our relationship has gotten monotonous and he says he still loves me but "it" just isn't there anymore. So I am at my parents house for a week. Will space help him? Is it over? What can I do to make us more exciting? What does he mean by "it" if "it" isn't love? Reply to this Question
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (15 January 2009):
Oh-oh. What does he want some space for? Hopefully, your appartment is too small and he is thinking about a bigger place.
Sounds like he isn't really to have a baby yet. If that's the case, let him go now. If you are ok with raising a baby by yourself, sit down and "count up the costs." Align your help up now (girlfriends, parents, etc.) If can resolve the housing and babysitting issue, you can do it.
I hope he is just scared and needs to clear his head. Pregnancy changes things and it's scary for everybody. I hope he does the right thing and takes care of you and the baby.
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reader, ashryanxx  +, writes (15 January 2009):
give him his space. let him ring and text u first. he will soon miss u if he really cares. do little fun things like go to the cinema some night and have some fun doing things ye both like. give him his space he will then see how important you are to him. i know its hard to go back to your parnts it drives me insane because u know they are worried about u but show them your happy and say that u want a bit of space too. show your partner that your happy and he will be back best of luck x
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