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writes: HI, I got dumped by someone I really liked over a year ago and I'm over it now but I don't care about any of the girls I see anymore!I've had flings with lots of girls, all of them I was attracted to but when it comes down to it I just can't commit. I can't be bothered any more apart from having sex a few times...what has happened to me?!Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (12 April 2005):
 Whats happening here is that you are determined not to get hurt anymore, by anyone, or anything. You say you are over the girl that dumped you, but it seems she has left a lasting impression in your mind of what all girls could be like!.. The thing you need to concentrate on is building, friendships and relationships with an open mind. Until then you are simply going to carry on the same way. This way obviously ensures you will not get hurt, as you simply will not let your guard down. Get out there and relax a little, take each day at a time and rememeber that we are all different, just because one girl dumped you doesnt mean they are all going to do the same thing! Be free thinking and go with the flow and gradually you will start to respect yourself as well as any new partner. Just try to open up and not to clam as by doing so, you run the risk of ruining any further relationships you may have. There will defo be the right girl out there for you. Just takes time to trust and be open and honest with someone.Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2005): You grew up, became an adult. These things change, just like your weight. You were obviously smaller in proportion then. Now you are older, wiser, wider, and a little less self-aware to what's around you .
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