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Girls and their "playtime"

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Question - (3 May 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2010)
A male Australia age 30-35, *ittle_nicky writes:

How often do girls maturbate? How do they do it? Do they look at porn while they do it? Or just think about it?

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A female reader, vanessajunroy United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2010):

Every girl has a different way of masturbating.

I use toys for mine..

Theres so many different toys and things that you can never get bored.

:) x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010):

Honestly, I do it all the time. Whenever I'm in the mood..haha

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010):

I usually look at porn to get aroused (though it's hard to find porn aimed at women nowadays, which is I think why so many women don't look) and then either use a vibe or I'll use some lube and my fingers. As for the comment "not as much as guys do it" that's so not true. I go through phases of doing it two or three times a day when I'm bored and usually do it daily. I know LOADS of women who do it the same if not more than men. And think of it like this, we can orgasm more in one day. For the comment that women aren't visual like men, it's so not true. That's just guys trying to explain why they should be encouraged to look at porn and check out tons of women and women shouldn't do that. A study done showed blood flow to the genitals (arousal) was pretty much identical in both genders while being shown porn. Also, I can feel myself getting really turned on if I see a shirtless guy or something. We're very visual too. One comment here said we can't do it if we're not turned on cause it hurts, but we can get ourselves turned on too. Masturbation isn't just something guys enjoy a lot and do habitually and often.

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A female reader, GettingHelp South Africa +, writes (3 May 2010):

Girls aren't like guys (for the most part).

Porn is aimed at guys because guys are visual and are turned on very easily by the things they *see*.

Girls get turned on differently they need to feel relaxed, special, sexy and have their brains turned on.

Basically most girls will think sexy thoughts and fantasies.

We also respond very heavily to touch so will generally "feel themselves up" - doing things like rubbing their nipples.

As far as actually cumming - rubbing clitoris & G-Spot will do it for most girls.

Clit is very sensitive and super arousing. G-Spot when rubbed will swell a little with a whitish/see through liquid, she'll feel like she needs to pee, eventually climax and finally some kind of release of the fluid.

Some girls don't release very much fluid others release a lot and can even "squirt".

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A female reader, katstale21 United States +, writes (3 May 2010):

Honestly, it really depends on the girl. It is more likely that guys masturbate while watching porn. Every woman is different on how they get off.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010):

it depends on the girl, some don't do it at all, some do it quite often, but its not as often as guys do. Girls can only do it when they are turned on otherwise they arn't wet and it would hurt, we dont really look at porn, so yeah we just think about it.

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A female reader, veronika Australia +, writes (3 May 2010):

veronika agony auntIt depends on the girl. Everyone has their own way of doing it, and different things that work for them.

This goes for everything - some girls masturbate several times a day, some several times a week, some only once in a while. And some may look at porn, while others won't. Some may use porn sometimes, and then other times use their imagination.

There are no right or wrong answers for these questions, because it's going to be different for every woman.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010):

xD I usually do it two nights in a row then leave it one night then two consecutive nights etc :)

Sometimes I look at porn but sometimes I just "think" about it as the brain is the most powerful sex organ :P

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