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writes: My girlfriend and I have a great relationship, we agree ons almost every aspect of life, in the beginning she said that she will not seek male friendships because it causes trouble and that being alone with a man allow a person to drop their gaurd and be open for "other" feelings.I agreed and we became best opposite sex friends. My problem is that she went out with a recent divorced girl friend and the wanted to go dancing, close dancing???This does not make sense, isn't dancing more intimate and personal and potentially dangerous than having a friend of the opposite sex???As a guy I know how you look at females while out with friends, I hear the comments? How do I handle the situation?
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reader, pzeller +, writes (30 December 2005):
 Tell her it makes you uncomfortable, and tell her exactly why. You can't control what she does, but she might be able to reassure you, or curb the behavior as a compromise. It's all about compromise.
Whatever you do, don't try to control her. Everyone (male or female) hates that.
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