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writes: Hello I am in a relationship with a lady in Belgium. We have been seeing each other for a year now. She is going through a divorce. What I wish to have advice on is that nobody knows about me except her two close friends, she will not tell her family about me and not to sure if she ever will. I am older than her in fact I am the same age as her mother. She as 2 young children which of course do not know about me. I just wonder if there will ever be a future between us. I love her deeply and she says she loves me deeply to but I just cannot understand why she is so silent about me to her family. Hope you can give me advice on the situation. Thank you,Dave
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (30 December 2005):
The only person that can tell you whats going on is your girlfriend. If she loves you deeply then it important not to put too much pressure on her at what must be a difficult time but you deserve to know if there is a future. Maybe she is at a time in her life when she isn't sure about what the future will hold. Try and gently get her reasons as to why you are being kept her a secret , tell her you love her and will try to understand to that you want to know. Have you asked her where she sees herself in five years time honestly. If you are still in her vision then stay and fight!!!
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